Do you ever wonder why kissing feels so good?  Well, I’ve got the answer, it’s dopamine.  Dopamine stimulates the same part of the brain as cocaine for a natural high.  Also, research shows that regular kissing reduces cholesterol in men and women alike.

When it comes to sex, most people have a comfort zone or at least a comfort zip code, they usually stay in but taking a walk on the slightly wild side can have some spine tingling benefits.  “It’s important for couples to keep expanding their intimacy and not get too dependent on the ease of autopilot sex, say sex  and relationships counselor Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of Sex Recharge.

Doing some of the things on this list can be a fun way to keep your relationship strong and protect it from the threat of boredom.  (Can you think of a better way to get closer?)  And if you’re hesitant to throw some of these suggestions out to your guy, don’t worry about speaking up, chances are, he’ll be suited up and in the game before you can finish your sentence.  “I see many couples who want to try something new in the bedroom, but each person is waiting for their partner to suggest it,” says Kerner.  Take this quiz, after, we’ll total the score.

Have you Ever:

Sexed Someone

1

Played dress-up (e.g. wearing your stilettos to bed)

2

Had first date sex

2

Read the Kama Sutra

1

Watched porn and learned  something   

1

Used Handcuffs

2

Planned a hot night of solo sex

2

Tied on a blindfold

2

Taken  a sex-skills class

2

Had sex  in the great outdoors

4

Had phone sex 

2

Role Played

2

Tried some light S&M   

2

Joined the Mile High Club

5

Bought and played sex games

2

Gotten it on in a bar bathroom

4

Attempted at least 10 different positions

3

Tried pool or hot tub sex

1

Had sex with the light on

2

Had sex at your parent’s house

2

Got it on in the next room at a party

4

Gotten busy in the shower

2

Had video-chat sex      

3

Made out with a stranger

4

Gotten busy in a parked car      

3

Let him give you an orgasm with no pressure

5

Gone for a simultaneous O

3

Had solo sessions in front of each other

3

Worn edible panties      

1

Had sex more than three times in one day

2

Had sex during your period

2

Tried a threesome

5

Done it in your workplace

5

Had a one night stand

3

Used food (i.e., honey, whipped cream)

1

Snuck in a workday lunch hour quickie

1

Incorporated toys

2

Tried anal sex

4

Kissed a girl

3

Lesbian love

3

                How Did You Score?

0 – 50

51 -74

75 – 100

Crank up the Heat

Stoke the Fire

Keep Things Sizzling

Just by taking this quiz you’ve shown that you’ve got a sexual pulse. 

Give yourself some credit for all the things on this list that you’ve tried (even the ones that, in retrospect you can’t believe you chanced.  If you’ve done a handful of those that require a bit more bravado, you’re likely have a sexual sense of adventure. 

Props – you’ve left very few sexual stones unturned! “You’re willing to take risks and put yourself out there to claim pleasure.  Being sexually liberated isn’t about trying everything, but being comfortable with that you’ve chosed to do. 

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